Are you positive and looking on the bright side every day?

Is optimism a part of your company culture?

Do you have a good sense of humor during the day?

If you do, then you are an optimistic leader like many Silicon Valley companies. You are an adventurous, fun leader. You know how to take an element of risk to have a FUN Management company.

You recharge yourself everyday with positive thoughts. You surround yourself with like-minded people. You take action. You are moving and full of energy.

Sometimes you get stuck in the mud. You accept it as part of the excitement and you figure out a way to get out and move on. You have outside mentors that can help you with new ideas when you get stuck. You are always optimistic about the future of the company because you trust your employees and know they will do the right thing.

You know how to visualize your great future and how to bring your company to the best level. You do visualize at least five times a day your great goals.

In parts one and two of Optimism Begins With the Leader, I shared with you about how leadership can help a company thrive even after hardships. In today's post I want to share with you some more leadership success stories.

Would you like your company to be voted “The Best Company to Work For?”

That honor has been given to the company, QUICKEN LOANS, for three years in a row by COMPUTERWORLD magazine.

Quicken loans, the nation’s largest online retail mortgage loan lender, based in Michigan, has 5,000 employees. The company hires 300 employees PER MONTH for their growing company!

The leaders in the company encourage their employees to be open-minded. Chief Information Officer, Frank Laura, knows that optimism leads to creativity and new ideas.

Team members love working for the company because they have the ability to take ownership in projects and work collaboratively with others from across the company. They love the fact that they can take responsibility for their projects.

CIO Laura tells us that the 360 teams in the technology group know all facets of the business.He says…

"We challenge them to dig deep, looking for things that can be improved upon, from the client's perspective. I think they derive a lot of satisfaction in building solutions internally, and in knowing what they do makes a difference to the company and our clients."

Chairman and Founder, Dan Gilbert, says… “Quicken Loans has created an entrepreneurial spirit that encourages and rewards creativity and innovation.”

The leaders recognize great ideas. It doesn’t matter whether it came from the CIO or the newest person on the team, they run with it. They are obsessed with finding a better way.

The company's culture provides the greatest sense of job satisfaction.

In my past three threads, I have shared some great leadership success stories about two companies, Quicken Loans and Odwalla.

Today let's discuss what we can learn from the stories of Odwalla and Quicken.

It pays to be optimistic. Don’t give into the negative when a crisis happens. Stay optimistic. Keep your mind open to new possibilities. Share your ideas with your employees. Ask for their suggestions.

An optimistic leader keeps communication open. He/she encourages everyone to brainstorm and share his or her ideas.

Top companies reward their employees for a job well done. Employees like to be empowered and get recognition as a team player for their achievements. They like to feel the sense of fulfillment and know that their leaders are aware of the contribution they have given to the company.

Young talented students looking for their first job in America want to work for dynamic Silicon Valley companies because they say they are FUN companies to work for. They tend to avoid companies that have the old traditional management style. Soon I believe that many Korean companies will have the same issues.

A year ago I interviewed some of the employees at Google. Google is a terrific model for FUN Management.

Here are ten comments that Google employees shared with me as to why they LOVE to work for Google.

1. “I get up in the morning looking forward to coming to work.”

2. “I came out of early retirement so I could work for Google.”

3. “I haven’t yet met anyone at Google who is complaining or bitter.”

4. “I am interviewing for FUN people to come to this team.”

5. “The founders, Larry and Sergei, created a work environment that was fun.”

In my last post I shared with you why FUN Management can be the best thing for your company's success.

Today I want to share how you can bring FUN back into your workplace and launch you to becoming a global leader.

Because your employees have a passion for their work, they will care about their customers; they will do their best. Your salespeople will not only sell your product, they will also do their best to maintain the reputation of your company. Your employees will keep your customers happy even after they sell their product. They will do follow-up calls, improve products and in general take initiative to keep your customers satisfied.

F.U.N. Management is also the only way you can communicate globally. If you learn F.U.N. Management it will prepare you to become a F.U.N. Management Global Leader. You will have a better understanding of how to develop good working relationships on a global level that will result in improved productivity and increased profits. Some other benefits that result from F.U.N. Management are:

1) People will begin to have confidence and believe that they can do well. You will have better communication with your people, and mistakes within the company will disappear or greatly reduce.

2) You will find it much easier to recruit the kind of people you want to have working for you if your company has a reputation for being a fun place to work at.

3) You will also find it easier to keep your employees. They like coming to work – why should they look for a better job elsewhere?

4) You will have a great relationship with society around you and it will be easier to do business.

Positive thinking is a great attitude to have and a healthy one.

I know some people who roll their eyes and scoff whenever anyone mentions positive thinking. They think optimism is childish and see cynicism as a mark of sophistication. You may think that way yourself, or, at the very least, I’m sure you know someone who does.

Well, that attitude could kill you! Studies have found that positive thinkers actually live longer than pessimists. Positive thinking can help with stress management. They are finding many healthy reasons to be a positive thinker.

Positive thinking is also a proven ingredient to professional success. In a University of Pennsylvania study, Dr. Martin Seligman in 1998 wrote an article entitled Learned Optimism and he found that insurance agents with a positive outlook sold 37 percent more insurance in the first two years than those with a negative outlook, and the pessimists were twice as likely to quit in the first year as were the optimists.

So, are you convinced yet?

The power of a positive attitude has been with me since I was a child thanks to my mom. She instilled in me at an early age that the power of a positive attitude would be an important attribute for me to have.

I got a chance to use that power of a positive attitude a year ago when I took a trip to the bookstore and a book caught my eye. As I leafed through the pages, I glanced at the publisher: Wiley. I had never heard the name before, but my book coach Joan told me that the company was a well-respected name in publishing. Since I now knew that the books they published were in my area of interest, I decided to use some positive thinking and send a book proposal to Wiley.

The next day, I flew to Dallas to speak at an American Society for Training & Development (ASTD) conference. I was busy practicing my speech when my co-speaker asked me to pick up something at her booth. I was running late, so I hurried through the booths, barely looking as I rushed passed. However, one sign caught my eye: Wiley. Intrigued at the sudden emergence of the name in my life, I decided to stop and chat with the booth attendants. Though there were a lot of people clustered around the booth, the attendants were polite and helpful. When I mentioned that I was thinking of publishing with them, they cheerfully directed me to the right person within the company, also standing at the booth.

Unique leaders have success bred in them. What does success mean to you? Do you give up when someone says NO to your idea? Is failure an option for you? I learned that unique leaders create their own success when I worked on a new idea to create a comic book.

For the past two years I have created and produced a multicultural education resources comic book for my cultural diversity training. First, people were excited that I decided to do this, but then they asked me, “How will you do it?” “How will you market it?” “Who is your reader?”

I knew that a multicultural education resources comic book would be a good cultural diversity training tool for my group because it is easy to understand and a fun way to learn a new concept.

The world is shrinking because of the Internet and media news, but peoples’ minds are still focused on their own country’s culture. A multicultural education resources comic book is a simple, way to communicate and help people learn and understand cultural diversity differences.

Even though I didn’t know how to do it, I knew I would get it done. I was passionate about the concept of multicultural diversity training through a comic book, and I was excited about learning a new field—comic book publishing.

First I created a storybook draft with actual experiences I had coming to America. My first business meeting where I had to speak English, then dining etiquette where I got invited to a dinner party, business card exchange manner, and what to wear to a business meeting.

Creativity on the job is needed for a successful operation. Yet, many managers do not know how to build creativity at work with their employees.

Managers value having creativity at work because those employees are known to be able to solve difficult problems, they work well with their co-workers and clients, and they contribute to the growth of the organization.

How do you bring out creativity on the job? How do you get those happy, innovative employees on your team?

I do know that during the past 20 years through working, reading and research I have learned that creativity on the job produces profits and happy, growing people.

The first step is to treat your employees as special and valuable contributors to the company. Let them know their contributions are important and that you encourage innovation and creativity on the job.

Here are some ways to bring out innovation and creativity on the job.

1. It’s okay to make mistakes. It brings out the creativity in people. Creativity comes from self-confidence. Let your employees learn from their mistakes.

2. Are you giving your employees an opportunity to meet other people and hear their stories? At Google in Silicon Valley they give their people enough time to meet other people and they get a chance to hear success stories from other departments and companies.

It is a dilemma. Gallup’s research states that as many as 75% of employees are unhappy on their job and eventually many of them will quit their jobs.

There are many reasons why employees quit their jobs. Some major reasons that I have noticed are:

- No mentoring

- No support

- Minimal training

- They are unable to communicate and address their concerns

Some of the warning signs on why employees quit their jobs are:

- Absenteeism

- Tardiness

- Behavior that indicates withdrawal or increased negativity

- Poor performance

These early signs of disengagement start showing up after a jarring event takes place that causes the employee to question his or her commitment.

How do you build and maintain employee trust in the workplace?

When you have employee trust in an organization it is the foundation for effective communication, employee retention, and employee motivation. Employees are then more apt to put in more energy and extra effort in their work.

Employee trust is critical to the success of an organization. Wouldn’t you want to work for a trustworthy company with a trustworthy boss? Well, so do your employees. They are more willing to take thoughtful risks, able to rely on other co-workers and leaders, ability to co-operate and work as a team, and experience open communication.

Here are five ways that you can build employee trust.

1. Keep employees informed of new projects and opportunities. Everyone likes to be kept up to date as to what is going on in the company. It makes them feel more like they are part of a family.

Recently I spoke at a Beauty Supply Conference in St. Louis, Missouri. Many women business leaders attended. I was impressed with their success because for many of them English is their Second Language and they came from another country. These successful women business leaders didn’t have a lot of business experience in their country but when they came to America they adapted and were motivated to change.

In their new country they brought with them a strong survivor instinct. These women business leaders find ways to help their customer. It is their passion to help their customers. And they are able to communicate with the younger generation even though they have a different cultural background. Interesting thing is because they are women and so are their customers, they find the needs of their customers quickly.

These women business leaders work hard and long hours. Many of them believe working hard brings in the income. They are motivated to succeed. They believe in hard work is the success factor in their business.

Many of them are mothers. Many graduated from exclusive universities in their countries. They are passing on their work ethic to their children. The children see their parents working hard and they learn this work ethic from their parents.

The future looks promising for women who aspire to be leaders in business.

A study conducted by Caliper, a management consulting firm, assessed the personality traits of women leaders in 19 different business sectors in the U.S. and the United Kingdom. The study also included men in similar positions so that a comparison could be done.

It should be no surprise that men and women have different leadership styles. There were four traits in particular that stood out as most important for success for women in business. Those traits are: persuasive, assertive, emotionally intelligent, and an inclusive team-builder. Of the four, only assertiveness is not considered to be an inherent trait for women. And the other three, persuasiveness, emotional intelligence and inclusiveness, have traditionally meant weakness for male leaders.

But the nature of business is changing and leadership styles need to change too.

Assertiveness; when a man has it and uses it, people admire his strength. When a woman uses it she’s seen as a you-know-what and people are offended.

Of course there is a fine line between assertiveness and outright aggressiveness. Everyone, men included, need to learn where that line is and avoid stepping over it or risk alienating potential bosses, customers and friends.

Before I give you some tips about how to be assertive I want to talk about an article I read recently. It was written by a British journalist comparing Sarah Palin to Margaret Thatcher. According to this author there is no “shrillness” in Palin or Thatcher’s leadership style.

Ladies, have you ever heard your spouse say, “I can’t read your mind”?

A lot of communications problems are caused by trying to read people’s minds or expecting them to read yours. Problems like that can quickly sink a brilliant project or proposal in the business world. A good business leader is someone who can get people to respond to their ideas in a positive way. To do that you have to be able to say what your ideas are, say what you need to achieve them and say it in a way that doesn’t alienate people.

That means you have to be assertive. Here are some tips for achieving assertiveness.

Last time we were talking about the importance of assertiveness for success as a business leader. Anyone wanting to be a leader but lacking confidence and assertiveness skills will not be able to stand up for their interests.

Let’s get back to those steps for assertiveness.

Step 3 – Pay attention to how you say things.

In Step One I talked about how you need to be clear about what you want to say. How you say it is just as important. How you say something has an effect on how the person receiving the message responds to you. An assertive communicator will start sentences with “I feel” rather than “you should”. This keeps the focus on the problem at hand without pointing fingers and laying blame. If the person you are talking to feels they are being “attacked” they will not listen to what it is you are trying to say.

In my very first post in this series about personality traits for female business leaders I stated that four particular traits are ranked as most important. We’ve already talked about assertiveness. Today we’re going to talk about emotional intelligence.

Your emotional intelligence is how aware you are of your own feelings and whether or not you are able to handle them in an effective manner. A leader with emotional intelligence gains the support and loyalty of her team by paying attention to what’s going on in the group and addressing any personality conflicts that arise before they can destroy the project.

Research shows that a business leader who has a high emotional IQ has better interpersonal skills, can handle conflict, confrontation and aggression in others. Such a leader is also perceived as more stable, someone the team can rely on.

Today we continue are look at the personality traits common to successful female business leaders. I promised to share my recipe for emotional intelligence last time. There are basically four key “ingredients” and they were talked about in the book Primal Leadership, published in 2001.

Let’s start with the first two:

Self-awareness. We talked about this one last time. An emotionally intelligent leader is one who understands their own strengths and weaknesses. They are also in touch with their own emotions and are able to set those aside in order to lead with their heads and do what is best for their team.

We’re going to finish today with our look at emotional intelligence, one of the important personality traits a female business leader needs to possess and perfect.

Social Awareness. This is another personality trait that demonstrates a high emotional IQ in a female business leader. No matter the business you will probably be working with a group of people, whether they are employees, co-workers or clients. And when you get a group of people together you get an interesting mix of personalities. A socially aware leader notices the interplay between members of the group; who gets along with who, who has good ideas but is shy to express them.

Last time we were talking about the importance of assertiveness for success as a business leader. Anyone wanting to be a leader but lacking confidence and assertiveness skills will not be able to stand up for their interests.

Let’s get back to those steps for assertiveness.

Step 3 – Pay attention to how you say things.

In Step One I talked about how you need to be clear about what you want to say. How you say it is just as important. How you say something has an effect on how the person receiving the message responds to you. An assertive communicator will start sentences with “I feel” rather than “you should”. This keeps the focus on the problem at hand without pointing fingers and laying blame. If the person you are talking to feels they are being “attacked” they will not listen to what it is you are trying to say.

Step 4 – Take responsibility for your part in the problem.

Call it inclusive leadership, participatory management or inclusive decision making; it’s a leadership style and a personality trait that involves everyone in finding solutions to a problem. And, according to the study I mentioned in the first installment of this series, this is one of the strengths of successful female leaders.

How many of you dread company meetings?

We’re talking about how inclusive leadership as a personality trait will encourage and influence employee participation. A smart female business leader will benefit from incorporating this technique into her repertoire of tools.

And speaking of personality traits, it seems to be human nature to resist change, especially if it’s change we don’t understand. Long-term employees may resist because they’ve seen things come and go before and believe that this is just a fad too. Your role as the boss is to take the lead. If you’re consistent and genuine your employees will take their cues from you.

Female business leaders who use inclusive leadership excel at sharing information. And this doesn’t mean standing at a podium in the conference room. A formal meeting like that has its place but a boss who wants employee trust and respect will talk to them, face-to-face, in their offices and around the water cooler. Having an open office door policy is a good idea too. Encourage people to ask questions and openly discuss what is going on in the company.

Would it surprise you to learn that most people find it difficult to work as part of a group? We’re talking about inclusive leadership as a personality trait shared by successful female business leaders. Inclusive leadership means you work with your employees as a team. To be effective any team has to learn to work together while taking advantage of individual strengths.

Training is the key to putting together a team that will make any female business leader proud. There are two areas on which training should focus; collaborative decision making skills and company or industry specific expertise.

Attempts at collaborative decision making often result in conflict because individuals have different ideas and goals. The group needs to be taught the “rules”, such as defining the problem, brainstorming ideas, and picking the best solution. A smart female business leader knows the time spent learning these skills will pay off; your employees will enjoy the chance to improve their own personality traits!

Managers who aren’t really on-board think inclusive leadership is limited to a suggestion box by the photocopier. A smart female business leader knows there’s more to it than that. Good inclusive leadership programs begin with the manager being prepared to give up some control.

Yikes! Job security often seems to revolve around insecurity and the feeling that you must be incompetent if you turn to others for help. That’s not what inclusive leadership is about and insecurity is one personality trait you don’t want to have. You must approach it confident enough in your position that you can be open to ideas from others. That confidence might be another personality trait you want to cultivate in yourself.

Successful female business leaders give employees a say in final decisions. That is a big step and perhaps the pinnacle of a good inclusive leadership program. Sometimes just offering alternatives for the employees to choose from will reap the same benefits as having them come up with the alternatives themselves; motivation and job satisfaction grow. Some areas that you might allow employees to make decisions about include work schedules and budgeting for supplies and equipment.

For the last while I’ve been telling you about some personality traits that were identified in a survey as most important for successful female business leaders to possess. Today I’m talking about the art of persuasion.

According to the Caliper survey I mentioned in Part 1 of this series, females have to be more persuasive because they lack the physical presence of most men. That doesn’t mean that men impose their ideas on people, men can be very persuasive too. Women just have to be better to get the same results.

Effective female business leaders use persuasion to communicate in a way that inspires and motivates. Employees are happy to cooperate to get the job done and customers enjoy being a client. Persuasive leaders build trust by being honest.

Being persuasive should not be perceived as a sales job; people hate that! It makes them feel they are being tricked.

The last of the Four Personality Traits of Female Business Leaders, persuasive communication, has three components. Each of these components is effective on its own but taken together they make for an incredibly persuasive communicator. If you are a female in business you will want to keep reading!

1. Building Credibility. If employees or clients feel you don’t know what you’re talking about they will tune you out. People become managers for a variety of reasons; dumb luck, personal connections, they bought the store and because they can do the job.

Truly successful female business leaders keep their position because they have expertise and they have spent time building credibility.

A credible person is prepared and knows what they are talking about. Preparation also involves predicting possible objections and having believable answers.

This is the last of my installments about personality traits for successful female business leaders.

This last component is crucial for persuasive communication. If you can’t present your information in a way that people understand and that builds confidence your project or sale will never get off the ground. It won’t matter to them how much credibility you have or how much you have in common with your audience.

3. Develop a Compelling Position. Your reasons for making changes at work or for why a client should use your services have to make sense. Any successful business leader will have the facts straight and will be able to present them in a compelling way that is easy to understand.

I’ll use President Obama as an example again.

Have you ever tried to talk to someone who wasn’t listening? For a business manager trying to make your company or team as productive and successful as possible, that can be very frustrating. And it costs money. People who don’t pay attention make mistakes.

Sometimes it’s just as important for the person in charge to listen. Maybe you’ve had a conference call with an important client and, because you were trying to “multi-task”, you weren’t sure what you had agreed to when you hung up the phone. That kind of inattention causes embarrassment and it will affect the bottom line as well.

Active listening takes patience. Work schedules can be hectic and slowing down for a minute or two to really listen isn’t easy. Why should a manager care about having active listening skills? Shouldn’t the employees just do what they are told?

Do you have to be one or the other? What’s the difference?

There is a difference but truly successful people have qualities of both and can switch between leader and manager as the situation dictates.

Let’s say a report indicates that your company’s customer service performance has slipped. A manager books the conference room and sets up training “re-fresher” meetings to review company expectations with employees. A leader calls a meeting to talk to employees and motivates them to re-focus on customer service; two approaches that achieve the same outcome.

Managers are organized, goal-oriented problem solvers. A good manager analyses a situation, finds the best solution and works in that direction.

Managers and leaders think differently. That doesn’t mean you need a split personality to possess the traits of both. You do need some sharp self-awareness skills.

Do you have great ideas that excite people but find nothing gets very far?

Leaders like you thrive on challenge and get bored with routine. If you recognize this about yourself, you can temper that passion enough to develop some practical problem-solving strategies. Turning a good idea into a successful project requires the skills of a manager. A manager looks at available resources, comes up with a plan of action and implements it efficiently.

If you are a manager who focuses on cost analyses and inventory reports, you may not notice when employee morale is low. Even great managers need to get out of their offices everyday and mingle with the employees.

A business coach specializes in helping a business find its strengths and weaknesses; information that is used to make it stronger.

You may be thinking, “I’ve run my own business for years. I don’t need a business coach!” If that’s the case, skip reading this article and get back to more important work.

But if you want to improve your business, read on.

In my profession I encounter people who have been struggling along, trying to turn their businesses into a success. Most of them really drag their feet about hiring a professional like me. True, a business coach costs money but trust me, it pays off in the end.

Here are four things a business coach can do for you:

Get you organized. It’s amazing how much productivity time is lost due to lack of organization! A business coach can take your office from a disaster zone to one where the information you need is at your fingertips.

Dust off your marketing plan. Your business coach can help you assess the effectiveness of your marketing strategy. Is the targeted market getting your message or are you wasting money on the wrong type of promotion? Maybe you’re not even targeting the right demographic!

North America is in recession; many businesses will fail because they fail to weather the current instability. You may think hiring a business coach is money you can’t afford to spend. I believe you can’t afford not to hire a coach.

Here are four more things a business coach can do for you.

Networking. When you hire a business coach who specializes in your industry you get someone who knows people. New contacts increase your chances for new clients.

Find your niche. I talked last time about how a business coach can help you with your marketing plan. Are you targeting the right customers? Is there a population segment that would better suit your product? Even the best marketing plan will fail if you target the wrong customers. Your business coach can help you identify the perfect demographic for your product.

When was the last time you looked up and thought about something besides how long it was going to take to get to the bottom of all the paperwork on your desk?

As a business coach I help people find their business vision. When you hear “vision” you might picture a group of people in a boardroom, staring at blank sheets of paper, trying to come up with a vision or mission statement for the company. They are probably watching the clock and shifting around uncomfortably in their chairs, praying for a coffee break.

That kind of situation generates “lip-service” ideas that nobody really believes. Instead, you need a vision that fuels the passion you have for your business; a passion that is shared by employees.